This week I had to say goodbye to my good friend Amanda here in Celina. She was the very first friend I made when I moved here. She had me over for dinner a few times and I was always envious of her ability to cook up these awesome concoctions...plus she always offered desert! Then Monday nights became our meeting times and without fail we would watch the Bachelorette and hang out talking about our lives, our dreams, our passions, our futures-everything. And we woke up before the sun to go running. And there were bikerides, laughter shared over drinks as we ate good food and stared out at the beauty of the lake, and talk of all sorts of adventures. She patiently helped teach me to play tennis and I offered her running tips as I picked them up. She shared pieces of her life with me, stories of joy, of hurt, of overwhelming excitement. She was offering her wisdom.
I hate goodbyes. Amanda was my first new friend in my independent adult life. On my own in a new place, away from home, away from familiarity and I was lucky enough to make a friend who could teach me so much about life in a short 7 months.
Saying goodbye to Amanda wasn't easy but it made me realize that who we become friends with is not merely a coincidence. We connect with people and make the concious decision to invest in them. To open up and share pieces of ourselves with them. Life, I believe, brings you people when you need them, for as longs as you need them, in order to get you through a certain point, to learn a new lesson, and to create irreplacable memories. Amanda came to Celina to start her life over. I came to start mine for the very first time. Together we embarked on a journey. A journey to our better selves. Our richer and more experienced selves. Our happier and more fulfilled selves. Our more confident more caring selves. Our more adventurous more daring selves. And most importantly,our
pure selves.
If I am willing, I can learn something from every person that crosses my path on my lifes journey. If I am willing to invest myself with a genuine soul to soaking up their wisdom my life will become greater. If I am willing, I will be able to one day impact other's lives in the same way mine is impacted by people all around me every day.
There is so much to learn from people everywhere. I love to meet new people and to learn more and more about people that I already know because everyone's life is a testament to something. A testament to love, or hope, or sadness. A testament to wreckless abandon, or freedom, or strength. Everyone is a testament to life and to the realization that the only thing that outlives our own lives is the impact we make on anothers. Relationships
are what lasts.
Call someone you haven't heard from in awhile. Send a card. Hug a friend. Smile at a stranger. Lend a few nickels to the person counting change in front of you at the checkout. Leave an extra tip for your waitress even if your service wasn't the greatest.
Investing in people must be one of the greatest joys of life.
And with that, it is goodbye to my friend Amanda who invested in me with an unhindered spirit. Thanks for listening and for sharing your life with me.I look forward to the adventure that will be our next encounter (in the Kentucky mountains I hope!)
Goodbye always leads to another Hello.